Tips on Chores in the Home
Family operations is where the rubber hits the road in service to our families. After going through numerous systems, chore charts, rewards, and family meetings our conclusion is there is no silver bullet! Though we don’t have a perfect system for chores, we have some principles and ideas to share with you that we hope are helpful. We will always be training and teaching our children until they leave our homes, and that can be hard work, but it’s worth it!
- Remember all the people in the household are contributing members of the home. Everyone benefits from the food, clothing and shelter you provide, therefore they should help in the upkeep of the home they benefit from.
- Make chores age-appropriate so you don’t get frustrated with the children. Purchase child-sized cleaning items like brooms, mops, sponges and brushes that children can really use to help around the house.
- Encourage your children to work alongside you. More than what you say to them is what you DO. Allow them to watch you work and they will imitate you. Work more slowly and deliberately when they are with you.
- Training your children to care for your home and belongings is a great way to teach them self-confidence, independence, responsibility, and respect for others. This is true for toddlers as well as teenagers.
- Make a list of all the daily things that need to be done and divide them up among the members of the household. Sometimes chores are better done alone, some are better done with a team. Figure that out and write it down.
- If you have older children, have a weekly meeting to review chores that they are assigned that week. Expect them to do those chores and try to not surprise them with chores at the last minute. Respect their time and treat them like adults. Then expect them to act like adults and do the job assigned to them.
- Consider “clustering” chores at a certain time of day. Like after dinner, the kitchen is cleaned, the floors swept or vacuumed and bedrooms cleaned up. Pick one day to do all the laundry so it is washed and put away within 24 hours. Then you have several days to not think about it or have it piled up by the washer.
- Simplify your home and your belongings so you have less things to manage and maintain. Your family will thank you!
If you have found these idea helpful, we invite you to listen to our podcast on Family Operations, where we discuss chores as well as scheduling kids activities. We also have some resources that we have found helpful.
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