MFM 21 – Play

Messy Family Project · MFM 21 – Play   This is a messy family minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon A wise woman once told us, if you are going to pray with your kids, you have to play with … Continue reading

MFM 20 – King of the Family

Messy Family Project · MFM 20 – King of the Family This is a Messy Family Minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon When people ask us about the goal of our family ministry – our answer is simple – world … Continue reading

MFM 19 – Challenge

Messy Family Project · MFM 19 – Challenge This is a Messy Family Minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon In our ministry, we have heard from many families who are struggling with from all this time cooped up together. We … Continue reading

MFM 18 – Mercy

Messy Family Project · MFM 18 – Mercy   This is a messy family minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon Through our Lenten fasting and prayer we learn how to control ourselves, and thus give ourselves more freely to others. … Continue reading

MFM 17 – Fasting

Messy Family Project · MFM 17 – Fasting This is a messy family minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon. The goal of fasting from anything–whether food or other pleasures–is to subordinate our flesh to our will. Basically, we need to … Continue reading

MFM 16 – Cana90

This is a Messy Family Minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon We believe that parenting is a path to holiness. Sacrificing and suffering are built right into the vocation of being a spouse and a parent! St. John Paul told … Continue reading

MFM 15 – Praying as a couple

This is a Messy family minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon. For some couples, praying together is very natural but others prayer may feel awkward or forced. But, the truth is that there is real power in spouses praying together. … Continue reading

MFM 14 – Family Culture

This is a Messy Family Minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon Many parents are greatly concerned about the way that secular culture influences their children. What’s a parent to do? It’s impossible for us to isolate our children from all … Continue reading

MFM 13 – Happy Kids

This is a messy family minute with Mike and Alicia Hernon. All parents want their children to be happy, but ironically it’s one thing that we actually cannot do for our kids. Every person has to make the choice to … Continue reading

MFM 12 – Unity

When you have a fight with your spouse, or I mean a “discussion with emotion”… its very easy to have tunnel vision and to make the goal of the communication getting our way because of course “we” are right and … Continue reading

MFM 11 – Special Time

It is vitally important for children to feel individually loved and known by their parents. Especially in a big family like ours this can be very challenging. But no matter how many kids you have, you have an obligation to … Continue reading

MFM 10 – Worry

My mother raised 10 children and now she has over 45 grandchildren all over the country! That is a lot of marriages, children, and relationships to be worried about! But she has adopted a wise saying that we will give … Continue reading

MFM 09 – Rules & Relationship

Very often parents contact us for advice on disciplining their kids. Children are “raw personality” when they are born and its the job of parents to shape them into civilized human beings! To accomplish this task moms and dads need … Continue reading

MFM 08 – More Than Words

The deepest desire for many of us as parents is to pass on the faith to our children and to do that parents must be very intentional. First we need to look at ourselves and Live our faith authentically because … Continue reading

MFM 07 – Habits

Creating good habits is an important part of family life, especially at the beginning of the school year. St. Francis said “Let us begin again for until now we have done nothing.” This is a great inspiration for us because … Continue reading

MFM 06 – Role Of Parents

There is something unique about the love of a parent and child. Nothing can replace it. Your children will have many friends, companions, and peers in their lives, but they will only have one mother or father. This relationship is … Continue reading

MFM 05 – Marriage Based Parenting

As Moms and dads we have a natural and grace-filled desire to lay our lives down for our children, to provide for their emotional and physical needs as best we can. Moms particularly can tend to burn themselves out for … Continue reading

MFM 04 – Family Retreat

When we see how crazy this world is, we can be tempted to isolate our family on a desert island and leave it all behind.  Well, that’s not really practical, but one thing you CAN do is take your family … Continue reading